Carlos Xuma – 77 Secret Girlfriend Strategies
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FINALLY REVEALED: How To Approach Any Woman And Make Her So Turned On She Will Do Anything To Be With You.
77 Bulletproof Approaches
77…It’s a magic number.
It’s going to be the most important number you need to know.
Do you like pretty girls?
I bet you do.
But do you worry about what to say to women or even if she wants to date you before you approach her?
And does all that ‘monkey chatter’ in your head make you agonize over your “opening line”?
Do you walk around with huge REGRET about missing the chance to approach a woman because she is gone by the time you finally think of the “perfect opening line?”
What if you knew the loophole, a biological super-highway that let you tap into a woman’s primal desires…
and gave you the power to approach and connect with any girl you want – anywhere…
and be able to not only attract her, but fill her with an uncontrollable desire for you?
The truth is,
Your goal isn’t just to meet her…
it’s to make her so interested in you, so intrigued by meeting you…
so curious about who you are and what it would be like to be with you…
that she can’t stop thinking about you …
and she has the uncontrollable urge to be near you…
By the time you’re done approaching and connecting with a woman…
the look on her face is going to say: who is that guy and when is he going to fuck me?
If you want to not only approach and connect with beautiful women…
But inspire them to want to date you, to have sex with you…
And possibly more…
If you want to have a different woman every night of the week…
You want that one special girl to have in your life, as your loving, loyal girlfriend …
All without the possibility of failure or rejection…
then the most important number you need to know is: 77…
That number is going to keep you from ever being put in the ‘Friendzone’ again.
In fact, if you use what I’m going to show you today, you can get out of any friendzone you’re in now.
And make that girl think of you as the guy she wants, in a sexual way.
To hook-up with or for a relationship. As someone she wants as her boyfriend.
in fact she can’t stop thinking about you…
But I have to warn you…
this is no lame, Pick Up Artist trick.
I’m going to show you the secret loophole I discovered…
A system of approaching that triggers something called the attraction-sex-love connection, all women have in their DNA.
An incredible discovery.
How to use the basic primal desires every woman is born with,
to make her so turned on and create an uncontrollable aching NEED to be near you, she will do anything to be with you.
She will literally hunt you down.
If you think you can handle that, then stay with me all the way through to the end.
It’s definitely going to be worth it.
This is no joke.
I promise you by the end of this letter not only will you be able to approach, meet and trigger the attraction-sex-love connection with any girl you want…
no matter how hot she is or how many guys hit on her.
BUT you will also have the POWER to inspire her, force her to keep thinking about you long after you’ve gone…
and to set off in her a desperate need …
an out of control desire to see you again, to get close to you so strong — she will be helpless to resist.
But I have to warn you, if you ignore a woman’s attraction-sex-love connection…
Or you don’t know how to activate it, you will always end up in the friend zone ”“ no matter what you do.
All you have to do is read this all the way through and I promise I’m going to explain it, step-by-step.
And by the end of this short video, you will NEVER think of the number 77 the same way again..
More about that in a minute.
This is David and I want to ask you an important question…
Your answer will say a lot about you and what kind of man you are:
Would you like to be able to go right over and meet the hottest girl in the room, or even on the street… wherever you are?
Whether it’s a bar, a beach, a restaurant, on the street, at a coffee shop anywhere…
Not just meet her and get her number…
but in less than 5 minutes, make her feel like she NEEDS to be next to you, and to know more about you…
flirting with you, touching you whispering in your ear?
And do it all without any fear of failure…
Without any self-doubt or the usual monkey chatter in the back of your brain…
The kind that makes you self-sabotage, eject yourself from the situation and run away like… well like a pussy?
Would you like to be able to approach beautiful women with an absolute certainty that you are going to be successful...
Without the hesitation, awkward pauses or the usual “holy crap what do I do now” feeling you always get when the conversation lags or stalls?
Successful in flirting and escalating sexually…
Then leaving at the exact right time that makes women want more of you, physically crave you…
Successful in unlocking her sensual side so that…
she can’t wait to hear from you and she even fantasizes about you…
Now you’re probably thinking…
“Come on, David. What guy wouldn’t WANT to be able to do that? Hell, that’s impossible. Nobody can do that, let alone in less than 5 minutes.”
I’m sure that’s what you’re thinking because that’s exactly what I used to think.
That it was impossible.
In fact, I use to live my whole life with the word ‘impossible’.
Believing all the good stuff was ‘impossible’.
What I really wanted to accomplish… the life I wanted, was ‘impossible’.
The man I wanted to be, the girls I wanted to meet and have sex with,
The women I wanted to have as my girlfriend, was ‘impossible’.
I lived my life never pushing the boundaries, never challenging myself to see what I could accomplish if I stepped outside my comfort zone.
Because I was convinced it was just impossible.
Does any of that sound familiar to you?
Are you living an average life, because you think the life you truly desire, the man you really want to be deep down in your heart, your biggest dreams…
Aren’t you sick and tired of ‘average’?
I know I was. I bet I can describe your ‘average’ life pretty easily. I bet you and I are a lot alike.
I bet you get really lonely sometimes, right?
It’s probably not something you talk about with your friends, but it sucks.
I remember feeling so lonely I literally felt like crying. I used to wonder if I was ever going to have a girl I really liked next to me.
If I was ever even going to get laid again.
It seemed like everywhere I went, I would see hot girls hanging out with these guys and I would think…
“Man I know I’ve got more to offer than that guy! Why in the world is she with him”? It got so bad for a while that I stopped going out altogether.
Loneliness is tough.
I was working and hanging out in bars in New York City.
And that’s where I would meet women. I would hang around and talk to them after they had a few drinks, and I had a few drinks…
It was pretty sloppy.
I mean, I was getting laid. But only with drunken bar sluts that were hanging around at last call.
These were not girls I wanted to see again. I didn’t even want to see them in the daylight (if you know what I mean).
And I never brought them back to my place.
So finally I stopped and I swore off the last call girls.
But then it got lonely. I got so lonely I had to get out of apartment. I would wander around for hours and hours.
I would walk around New York, and I would study people and how they interacted.
Entire days would pass and I had spent the entire time studying people. Months went by.
I got a job in the busiest department store in New York City, Just so I could watch, learn and experiment with approaching and connecting instantly with women.
I worked at Bloomingdales for almost 2 years. And every day I would, approach, flirt and eventually seduce women I had never met before.
I did it so much and so often, I eventually became an outlier;
I was so good at it, it became effortless. I could meet any woman and in under 5 minutes get her completely turned on, emotionally and physically.
It became like a parlor trick. I could challenge a friend to pick any woman in a store, at a restaurant, even at the beach…
And I would go over and pick them up in less than 5 minutes.
And I’ll tell you more about that in a minute.
How are you doing with confidence… is it a struggle?
That’s a big one, right?
If you had more confidence…
you could be yourself. If you saw a girl you wanted to meet, you could just go over and introduce yourself.
It seems so simple.
But without that confidence inside, there’s no way. You see a beautiful woman and it feels like you are frozen stiff. Like you can’t move.
And the conversation in your head won’t stop. The self-doubt, the anger. It’s like a loop that plays over and over, right?
Do you sometimes think you aren’t good enough for the girls you really like?
Do you sit back and watch other guys move in on the girl you WANT and he takes her home instead of you?
Tell you what used to happen to me, I’d see a girl I wanted to talk so badly…
I would imagine what it would be like to kiss her, touch her, have sex with her.
Then this annoying thought would buzz around in my head. Like a gnat.
That I didn’t deserve her.
I wasn’t good enough for her. And I’d just walk away without even trying.
And then I would beat myself up for the rest of the day for being such a pussy!
That ever happen to you?
Are you confused, and can’t figure why you haven’t been able to figure out this approach thing yet?
Just want to know what’s wrong with you– so you can fix it?
Let’s get one thing straight right here, there is nothing wrong with you. Not one damn thing.
And it’s not about money
You don’t need to spend a lot of money to be with women. I promise it’s not about that.
The problem is, you aren’t doing anything right. You aren’t being positive and pro active. You aren’t trying at all. Not really.
You’re playing it safe. And when you do that, nothing good happens.
It’s the weirdest thing, it wasn’t until I TRIED to make mistakes on purpose, did I discover how easy it was to get it right!
And these weren’t small mistakes, I went big. I was trying to fall flat on my face. A few times it nearly got me fired from Bloomingdales.
I tried and tried and tried…
And then I LEARNED.
Well my friend, today is your lucky day.
Today, I’m going to show you how to do it right. All of it.
I’m going to give you your Super Powers to do the ‘impossible’.
I found this super power by discovering a strange and slightly dangerous loophole that goes back to our evolution.
With all my efforts, my thousands of attempts, trying over and over, I stumbled down an unfamiliar road.
And when I took it just to see where it went, figuring it was another dead end, it became clear pretty fast I found the biological super-highway to incredible success with women.
I cracked the code.
By tapping into our most primal desires…
I unlocked the secret to the attraction-sex-love connection.
And it’s not about posturing or some stupid pick up lines.
It’s not about being rich or having big muscles or a cool car.
It’s about unlocking the natural desires every woman is born with.
For that reason, any man, anywhere can approach and attract any woman. And I mean any woman.
Stay with me and I’ll show you exactly how to do it.
In this short video I’m going to give you the key to having the kind of life most guys don’t even talk about (cause it’s so far beyond what they think possible).
But they sure as hell dream about it. Just like I did.
The biological super-highway I stumbled across, changed my life into something way past my wildest fantasies,
so unbelievable even friends who saw it happen in person, who saw what I can do in less than 5 minutes, anywhere, anytime I want, were left in a state of disbelief.
It’s what got me interviewed on Nightline when they saw what I could do in Whole Foods…
And it’s why they made the movie ‘Hitch’ about me.
The truth is, people are flat out stunned and amazed.
Today, I’m going to give you that same knowledge and I promise you it will change your life in ways you never thought possible.
In ways most men barely have the courage to even fantasize about.
The ability to make your wildest fantasies come true whenever you want, can be your reality. Like it is mine.
Not only is it possible, I’m going to show you exactly how to do it, right now.
But I’m not going to stop there, I’m going to make success approaching women so simple for you…
So incredibly foolproof that it’s impossible for you to make a mistake…
That I can basically guarantee you will succeed every single time you approach a woman….
You’re probably thinking…
Seriously, David? How in the world are you going to “guarantee” my success?
Actually, it’s pretty simple.
I’m going to give you the actual approaches that you can cut and paste…
And you will be able to do it whenever you want.
And it doesn’t matter how good looking you are, what kind of shape you’re in, what kind of a car you drive, or even if you’re out of work, overweight and bald!
These approaches work. Period.
When I teach them to friends and clients, they can’t believe how easy it is to approach women and create the feelings, the sense of attraction and connection that lead to intimacy…
And how amazing their results are when they try it themselves.
And those guys were totally clueless when it came to girls.
But first, you and I have to make a pact.
You need to promise me if I open that door for you and show you the secret I discovered,
if I give you the keys to the kingdom, you will have the courage to act and become a man of action…
and you’ll use this rare knowledge to get out of your damn comfort zone and make your life better.
Sure, you could use it to meet as many women and have as much sex as you can, with women who never looked at you twice or even gave you a chance before.
But I hope you use it to make your life better.
Now, I need to tell you a quick story about me.
You see I wasn’t always the guy that could attract any woman, anywhere, any time. Quite the opposite.
I was just an average guy living in New York City.
I did all sorts of crazy stuff to make money, whatever I could to pay the bills. And it wasn’t always easy.
I was a bartender for a long time.
And like I said, there were always girls around.
But when I tried to meet the women I was really attracted to, I struck out.
Every single time I would approach a woman when I wasn’t behind the bar, the monkey chatter in my head made me doubt myself.
And then I would eject myself from the conversation before I could get their number.
Eventually, I lost all of my confidence and my sense of myself as a man.
I thought no woman was ever going to be attracted to me unless she was drunk.
Honestly, that’s how I felt.
I had no idea how to meet women.
But I was lonely. So lonely I couldn’t stand to be by myself in my own apartment.
I had no idea what to do and no confidence. I was desperately unhappy so I did something a little crazy.
Listen closely because this is important.
I had no game.
I went to work every day at the department store and I watched people meet. Over and over until I knew what they were going to say before they said it.
And that’s when I knew I was ready. Ready to push beyond my comfort zone.
Sometimes I was afraid I would get slapped but I was always afraid of rejection.
But the crazy thing is, it never happened.
The more I pushed, the more they responded.
The more bold I was, the more interested women were…
I’m going to say that again…
The more bold I was the more interested women were…
And the more attraction and connection I created.
And the connection would immediately grow and escalate. Honestly it was like magic.
Everything I did turned out right!
These women were teaching me how to approach them and create the feeling of attraction with them…
They treated me like I was the only man in the world…
Like I was the only one that knew their true desire… the rare insight most men never know.
And they NEVER put me in the friend zone. Not once.
And that’s when the light bulb went off.
The ‘aha’ moment that changed my life.
With their help, I had unlocked women’s attraction code.
I’ll tell you the rest in a minute.
Right now I’m going to tell you the 3 things — the only 3 things you have to do to approach and create that sense of attraction and intimate connection with women instantly.
Fast and easy. Because that’s all it takes. 3 things.
But first I need to tell the 3 Big Lies you are being forced to swallow.
I hate these lies because they don’t do anything but make problems for you. And make you feel like there’s some giant secret you don’t know about.
Like you’re not one of the popular kids.
And all the noise has got into your head, telling you that you aren’t good enough.
That’s Big Lie #1, that for some crazy reason, YOU aren’t good enough for the kind of life you want, and the kind of women that really turn you on.
That the world is made-up of have’s and have-not’s. And you my friend, are being told you’re a ‘have not’.
That’s just bullshit!
You’re being sold a bunch of crap…
Here’s the thing, it’s not your fault for buying into it.
It’s all just a bunch of blah, blah, blah…
Those guys are full of crap. There are no magic lines that can get a girl to drop her panties.
If there was, every guy in the world would be using them.
And that’s Big Lie #2.
That if you use a ‘certain’ pick-up line, or you play some ‘game’, you’ll suddenly be able to meet woman and seduce them, as if by magic.
Yes, we all know women react to men with confidence and presence.
It’s what they are programmed to do, biologically.
The best line in the world will fail every time if you have no confidence, presence and charisma.
But even if you are confident – a connection that leads intimacy, sex and a relationship (if you want one), only happens when you trigger her biological attraction-sex-love switch.
(more about that in a minute).
That leads me to Big Lie #3.
Big lie #3 is the common belief that what I do, approaching and getting close to a woman,…
so close she’s desperate to know more about you, to bear near you and date you, in less than 5 minutes — is impossible.
You have to see it to believe (and I’ll show it to you). But it’s real.
I swear to you it’s real.
You could spend countless hours, using every pick up artist system or magic pick-up lines…
but you only get a bunch of double talk, and slickly marketed bull-shit.
I was determined than ever to figure it out. No short cuts and no pick up lines. No fake it till you make it.
So I became a student. A student of human nature.
I bought every single book on human behavior, psychology and persuasion I could find.
And after years of studying, I learned that attraction isn’t about a line, or a lie, playing games or creating some ‘I’m not really that into you’, bad boy attitude.
At it’s core, creating an attraction so intense a woman will reveal her primal desire, is about making a real connection with her.
And that right there, is the reason why women put 99% of guys they meet into the friend zone.
Even if you approach a woman and have a real conversation, if you don’t establish an emotional and physical connection with her, she has no choice to think of you as anything other than a friend.
If you don’t trigger her in a primal way… her brain can’t make the attraction-sex-love connection.
You see, meeting and attracting women is a simple and most basic human function, one of our 3 primal needs. Besides food and shelter.
Think about it this way,
How long have men been creating desire women…
Or humans would have died off a long time ago.
Do you think our ancestors, thousands of years ago, stood around figuring out a system to attract women… playing pick-up games or pretending not to be interested…
It’s a joke. They saw what they wanted, what was desirable and imposed their will.
Men and women, attraction and sex, these are the forces of nature.
As human beings, it’s in our DNA, it has to be.
We are designed that way in order to propagate the species.
And it’s a natural progression of 3 things.
That’s it. Just 3 things and the best part is…
we do them naturally!
That’s how I know the pick-up guys are full of it. Not one of them ever mentioned being primal, or our biological needs.
The physical desire and the genetic need for, connection, touch and sex.
Not just men. Men and women. It’s why you and me are on this planet. We need touch and sex.
All of us.
Did you know that without touch from another person, eventually humans will die?
Did you know that we aren’t engineered to be alone, that it goes against our nature and is actually unhealthy?
The truth is, you aren’t a “wimp” because you feel lonely.
Your body is feeling sick.
When it comes to approaching and triggering the attraction-sex-love connection in women…
an uncontrollable urge to be near you…
And it doesn’t matter if you’re attracted by hot young women, or a little older,
Whether you like long-legged, skinny girls with tight bodies and small butts…
or you like them a little bigger, rounder, with big boobs and a nice butt so you can have something to grab onto…
if you’re attracted to blondes or brunettes, black women, Asian or hot Latina girls…
Or if you’re like me and you like all women…
All you have to do is 3 things to trigger the attraction-sex-love connection…
Just 3 things. Period.
I’ll tell you what they are in a minute.
First, I have to warn you about a big problem, something you might not even realize.
Think about the story of Adam and Eve for a minute.
I know it’s a story made up by men.
But there’s a lot you can learn from the story of Adam and Eve.
Adam, was a man who suddenly found himself standing next to the hottest girl in the world…
Eve was a perfect ‘10’, created by god to be so incredibly desirable they would do nothing but make babies, right?
And they were both naked.
What would you do if you were in that same position?
Pretty funny to think about.
Adam didn’t have any pick-up lines… So what did he do?
He did exactly what I do.
He went over and talked to her, with confidence. Not like a fool with a system of pick-up lines or ridiculous questions.
He started by saying ‘hi’.
Which is perfect. I coach guys to use it all the time.
The best thing to say a woman, any woman, is ‘hi’…
And it has never failed me.
I’ve never missed talking to any woman, anywhere. Not in New York, Denver, San Diego, Miami, London, Chicago or Los Angeles.
And that’s Step 1: ‘Talk to Her’.
The first thing you have to do to meet and create desire in a woman, it’s pretty obvious but — you have to say ‘hi’.
Do you think you can do that? Of course you can.
You’d be surprised how many guys screw it up doing ridiculous BS they saw on the internet. It’s simple:
Walk over with confidence, say ‘hi’. Start talking to her.
Nothing fancy. Just like your talking to a buddy or your neighbor.
Don’t over think it, that’s another place most guys get into trouble.
They start thinking about the perfect thing to say and the result.
What they want. Or they think, ‘oh man if this girl would give me her number and go out with me’ ”“ or ‘if I could have sex with her’ — ‘if she was my girlfriend’ ”“
Forget all that crap. Just talk to her.
Can you guess the #1 biggest problem guys have meeting women?
They don’t know what to say.
Why? Because they over think it.
Any girl will tell you it’s never about what you say but how you say it and your body language…
That brings me to Step 2.
Step 2 is another thing you have to do but you can’t over think.
You have to be relaxed and confident, like a man.
When you’re talking to her, find a way to give her a small compliment. Nothing over the top like, ‘ oh my god you’re so beautiful’.
But something small, that makes her feel good.
You need to make her feel important…
Every woman in the world wants to meet an alpha-male, a real man, and real men compliment women.
But you can’t stop there.
This is the exact spot where most guys stop and it’s the reason why they fail and get tossed into the friend zone.
Time after time.
If you walk over with confidence, say “hello” and have a conversation. Most women will give you their phone number.
But she will forget about you as soon as you walk away.
And by the time you text her or call her, she’s had so many distractions, friends, guys, texts, hits on her Tinder… whatever…
The truth is…
You have no chance with her.
That’s because you left out the most important part.
You left out Step 3.
Step 3 is the key that unlocks attraction.
It’s the super-highway to her attraction-sex-love connection.
Do you remember the one thing that all humans need or they will die?
You got it… It’s touch.
You have to touch her, to break through the imaginary barrier she has and make contact.
I’m not talking about grabbing her ass or doing anything inappropriate…
It could be small like touching her arm or her hand…
You could even give her a hug when you say goodbye…
When you break the barrier and touch a woman it sends a primal signal to her brain…
And she instantly starts to think of you in a different way…
It sends a flood of oxytocin through her body that makes think of you as a romantic interest and a sex partner…
It’s the same chemical that her brain releases when she has an orgasm, so you know it makes her feel all warm and friendly.
Like she’s ready to have sex…
Because she is ready to have sex!
If you think back to every girl that ever stuck you in the FRIENDZONE, I guarantee you didn’t touch, skin to skin, the first time you met.
Listen up because this is too important to miss…
Here’s how I know for absolute certainty all pick-up lines are crap…
Triggering the attraction-sex-love connection in a woman is not about what you say…
It’s almost entirely about what you do and how you do it.
If you have positive, masculine body language and you touch her…
It almost doesn’t matter what you say to a woman. You will succeed.
I have seen guys master this technique so well… sometimes they can hook-up with a woman without saying a word.
I swear it’s true.
It happened last year at one of my boot camps, in front of 7 other guys…
Here’s the thing, I hope you’re about done believing that for some reason you aren’t good enough to approach and date the girls you really want…
That for some reason these women are ‘out of your league’.
I want to help you because I know the right way to do it, with no chance of failure or rejection.
And I want to save you the time, the money, the frustration and the heartache I went through.
I’m going to give you my shortcut…
I’m going to show you exactly how to do it. And you can copy me.
These approaches are proven to work 100% of the time and you can cut-and-paste them.
I’m going to give you the approaches that activate a woman’s attraction-sex-love connection word for word, action for action.
Not just what to say, how to stand and act, the way to move… everything.
These are videos of average guys like you approaching great women, and I coach them. I break down exactly what to do at each moment, at every turn in the conversation.
I guide you past her red flags and trap doors that plunge straight to the Friend Zone..
And lead you straight to the promised land…
Her attraction-sex-love connection…
Step by step.
But that’s not the best part,
The best part is that there is a panel of gorgeous women that were the ones approached and they gave their feedback, insight, criticism and keys for success…
All from the woman’s point of view!
And when you have these step-by-step approaches, as coached by me with the insight from the panel of beautiful women…
You are going to have…
the cut and paste recipe for success…
They’re literally bullet proof.
And you will have all of these approaches right at your fingertips.
On your computer, your tablet and even on your phone so you can access them wherever and whenever you need them…
Does this sound amazing… like exactly what you’ve always wanted?
Can you guess how many of these bullet proof approachesI have for you ”“ how many girls we talked to, created intense physical desire by accessing the attraction-sex-love connection and got their numbers?
That’s the number to remember.