Carlos Xuma – Alpha Immersion
Carlos Xuma – Alpha Immersion Download
Is it Really Possible for a Man With LOW or NO Confidence With Women and Dating To Build His Confident, Powerful, and Masculine Sexual Identity – AND Get a HIGH-QUALITY Woman?
Men Everywhere Are Tired of Being Fake With Women – No More Fake Lines, No More Fake Attitudes, and No More Lame Results…
FROM CARLOS XUMA: Monday, 12:24 AM.
If there’s one thing I know, Men NEED to feel sexually confident and capable of attracting women.
Not “want” to feel – they NEED to feel this kind of ability. That’s what drives us as men.
And I’m not just talking about the average woman or the one you’ll be bored of dating in a few weeks. You want a HIGH QUALITY woman that will add value to your life for months and years to come.
You don’t ever want to settle.
I’m about to take you inside the somewhat demented world of the “pickup artist,” and see what most guys will never see… How REAL attraction and confidence works for women from the inside out.
When it comes to dating women, sometimes a man will do anything to attract women…And sometimes there are things that NO man should do.
Before we go any further, I need you to ask yourself something…
- Have you ever read an opening ‘line’ you learned from some book or message board that sounded so cool when you read it, but you tried it and fell flat on your face? Something like: “Hey, who lies more, men or women?”
- Have you ever wondered how you can get a truly spectacular HIGH-QUALITY woman into your life, instead of dating women that aren’t up to your standards?
- Have you ever tried to talk to a woman in a bar or a club, and the conversation ran out in just a couple of minutes? One minute you’re talking about something with her, and she’s laughing and flipping her hair, the next minute you’re sitting in the middle of one of those uncomfortable silences…
- Maybe you’ve tried some of the “pickup” routines that you heard or read about, but you wound up feeling like you were impersonating a rock star, or pretending to be a person you weren’t…
- Have you ever been out on a date with a woman you don’t want to mess it up with, and you found yourself wondering just HOW MUCH to reveal about yourself…? After all, you don’t want to scare her off by telling her the wrong things, but what’s good to tell her – and what’s bad…?
- Maybe you’re out talking to women and approaching women, and now you’re wondering how to not only overcome your own fears and doubts, but you want to know what the Big Picture is – How to go from A to Z with a woman and escalate naturally and confidently from meeting her to taking things to a more sexual level…
“Men Will Sacrifice Anything – Including Their Identity – To Attract Women…”
When I was out meeting women, and I got into a one-on-one conversation with a woman that thought was attractive, I would throw away almost everything that made me unique just to meet a woman’s expectations and attract her to me.
But here I was, trying to give her exactly what she SHOULD want – and what every woman seemed to say she wanted…
But I never felt like it was enough.
It got to the point where I almost gave up.
The more I went out and met women, the more I found out that “me” didn’t seem to be enough to attract her. I’d talk to women about my hobbies and what I thought was interesting, but I never seemed to get anywhere.
When I was on a date, I’d ask a bunch of questions – because I’m supposed to show interest in HER. Then I’d end up telling her about my family and my job.
But by the end of the date, it never felt like any spark had been made…
It seemed like telling her about me bored her in some way.
After a while I started being a little “flexible” with the truth. I found myself purposefully hiding certain facts and even exaggerating things about me to impress her, because I figured she would find me more attractive up front.
And then later on down the road I could be more “real” with her. I even tried being more like a “player” to jack up women’s attraction for me.
Well, that actually backfired on me, too, because even though I got them more interested in me at the start, I started having less success getting another date with them. I lost her trust by being too intense with the player vibe.
My game was actually WORSE when I was using pickup techniques than when I was just being “myself.”
- Do you ever feel like a woman can see right through you and the methods you use to try to get her interested?
- Have you ever been afraid of being “caught” using an opener or a line when you’re trying to approach a woman? Or that she’s got her “player” radar on and she’s already on high alert for ‘your kind’ of guy?
- Do you ever feel like dating starts out with some interest, but most of the time you never seem to get off the ground with a woman? You feel like it’s an uphill battle to generate interest from her, and the more you try, the less she seems to respond?
You’re not alone.
I felt like this for years.
The funny thing is, most of the guys out there that I work with will try anything to improve their ability with women. They try all the pheromone colognes, witty openers, and hypnotic patterns. In the end, they just feel like they can’t do it because – they say – “it’s not me.”
Here’s The Dirty Truth You Didn’t Know About Being A “Pickup Artist…”
I’ve heard from a lot of guys that picked up a copy of the book “The Game” telling me that none of the lines and openers they got from it work anymore because ALL the guys are using these techniques.
You know what? This is always going to be true. You can find a thousand techniques out there, and only a handful that actually work for you.
These routines and techniques that guys teach on TV reality shows are just to give you an idea of the type of things that women find interesting, and the word-for-word routines are not meant to be parroted to every woman you see.
It’s like learning how to play guitar. You can learn to play a Led Zeppelin tune or two if you want, and you’ll sound like Jimmy Page. But that’s all you’ll ever sound like, until you learn how to play like YOU.
I actually did this for years playing guitar before I figured out that I was great at sounding like other people… but I just couldn’t sound like ME.
I wasn’t very original, and I started feeling and acting like a clone instead of being unique.
And that’s how using routines and lines can actually cripple your success with women, because you are undermining your belief and confidence in yourself by using borrowed words.
“Stop Telling Yourself That You’re Not What She Wants…”
Again, the biggest mistake we make as men is assuming that because what you’re doing isn’t working, that means that it’s YOU that’s at fault. As if you’re entire value as a man is based on a skill you’ve never been taught.
Just like the example I just gave you of the guitar style I was trying to find, there are TONS of “systems” and outer game techniques out there that work the same way. You learn how they work, and then you get rid of them because they are just training wheels to get you riding the bike yourself.
Long after all the clever pickup lines and approaches have been exposed, your authenticity and REAL character will NEVER be out of style or a liability. You can’t get caught using one of these “techniques” if you’re always being YOU.
Pretty cool, huh?
This is what I want to teach you. How to get women interested in you and build deep rapport with them by just being YOURSELF, instead of trying to be someone you’re not, or use other people’s words.
No matter how many techniques you learn, you will always end up back here with me working on your inner game. No technique in the world create this strength of foundation you’ll get from complete self-confidence.
And The Secret To Getting Women That No One Ever Told You About…
For the longest time, I’ve wondered “What is it that makes certain guys REALLY successful with women? But what I noticed was that whenever another guy tried to imitate that same success – using the exact same techniques that the other guy was using and had success with – the guy imitating him had a tough time.
(In fact, the guy who was trying to model the successful guy often had a much tougher time in the long run. I’ll come back to this in a second…)
Even I had the same problems. I’d use an opener I learned from someone, and when I walked over and used it to start a conversation, I would sound like some phony B-movie actor delivering a bad line. It sounded corny and stupid.
One girl even stopped in the middle of taking a sip from her drink, squinted at me, and said, “Did you just try that with all the other girls in here?” Then she rolled her eyes and shook her head, and I felt that sinking sensation in the pit of my stomach as my confidence crashed and burned.
I think you know what that feels like, don’t you?
The one thing that women need to trust you and give themselves to you is something that most guys completely miss. It’s a little word that starts with an “A” and ends in “C.” I’ll explain this word to you right now…
Wouldn’t it be nice to have a system that you could use that you would never feel “caught” with?
Something that comes from your own unique identity? That doesn’t feel fake?
Women Can See Who You Really Are – No Matter What You Do or Say.
Human beings are amazing creatures, and women are even more amazing in their ability to pick up on you – your vibe!
Here’s something I discovered along the way that finally gave me the “A-Ha!” moment I needed, and I want to share it with you. It took me years to finally “get” this into my thick skull.
This is what I figured out:
Women have a highly specialized social radar. It’s a highly sensitive instinct that almost seems like Telepathy… It’s her social radar – and it can detect B.S. from a mile away. It’s just like Spidey-sense, complete with the tingling.
Women can tell if you’re being YOU or trying to be someone you’re not. And she can do this in the first 2 or 3 minutes of a conversation, almost without fail.
And here’s something else:
The one thing a woman is attracted to first – the one thing she must test you for before she will trust you and go further – is if you’re AUTHENTIC.
She has to know you’re SINCERE.
Most of our brain matter, in fact, did not evolve so you could solve tricky Algebra problems, or memorize plays from Shakespeare.
Most of your mind evolved so that you could tell when someone was being sincere with you, so that you could make a decision about who to trust – or not.
This isn’t a life-or-death decision today, but it used to be, back when you had to know that your friend Grok wouldn’t abandon you in the middle of a mammoth hunt.
Women have this exact same specialized brain wiring, but it’s even more effective at figuring out men. She needs to know very quickly if the guy she’s interested in is an asset – or a potentially life-threatening risk.
So you see, the secret is not trying to camouflage your attempts to get a woman interested in you, or try to sneak in with some hypnotic technique, or hide behind a “pickup” routine. Quite simply because YOU CAN’T HIDE YOURSELF from a woman.
The REAL “trick” to getting women is in learning how to be attractive to a woman from your own unique personality.
Because that’s all she’s ever going to believe about you anyway.
But I’ll bet you’ve figured this out on your own, haven’t you?
I used to play a lot of “pickup games” with women, but then I finally realized that the only women that are interested in all these fake routines and games are the 22-year-old drunk party girls. These girls are only there to have fun and maybe hookup. You really don’t need a lot of skill to pickup on them.
The kind of high-quality woman that I wanted to find – the woman that was interesting to talk to – as well as get physical with – was not going to be spending her time at the clubs every night.
So rather than using a shotgun to catch them – blast buckshot everywhere and hope to hit someone that might be interesting – I found a way to turn my game into a SNIPER RIFLE and catch my target every time.
Deadly aim, precise accuracy.
And then I could target the kind of woman I wanted to have in my life.
The best thing about choices is being able to choose what you want, not what you have to settle for.
The Secret Reason Women Can Smell Your Real Confidence and Personality…
Have you ever had a woman tell you that you should “just be yourself.”
Well, let me ask you something: When are you ever not being “yourself?”
The only time is when you try to pretend that you have qualities that you don’t really believe you do.
That one bit of female advice is completely true, but also completely damaging to a guy who doesn’t understand what women are really saying when they say “Just be yourself.” You have to be “you,” but you also have to be the best version of you that you can show.
Here’s something you might not know: If you try to be someone you’re not by borrowing someone else’s stories or showing off a lifestyle you haven’t experienced, you give off a very weird ‘vibe’ to every person you meet. ESPECIALLY women, who have psychic tentacles that can feel out any part of your personality that doesn’t seem to match your behavior.
Look, I don’t want to get too philosophical here, but the truth is, You are who you THINK you are.
Your identity is the CORE of who you are – your true PERSONALITY.
Your personality isn’t likely to change without a lot of painful, unnecessary work – and you should never have to change it.
A lot of guys think that since they haven’t experienced the kind of massive success they want with women, and their self-esteem is sending them all kinds of conflicting information, they believe that they cannot turn their game around with women.
This is NOT true, and I’m going to tell you how ANY guy can turn his game around.
On one side you have your “Personality,” and on the other hand you have your “Personas.”
Your “Persona” is who you are when you let other people influence how you act. Personas are FLUID and FLEXIBLE. You can create personas and still be true to YOU. You have a persona for going to church, or talking to a group of people, or going out in a bar.
Your persona is just the parts of you that you choose to bring out in certain social situations.
So the best way to attract women is to be the best YOU you can be.
And that is what I show men how to do. Not be somebody else that feels fake or weird. Just be the best YOU.
To do this, I came up with a model of the ideal man that most guys want to be. I call him the Alpha Man.
What Is the “Alpha Man?”
|He’s REAL – He knows how to show his genuine personality in a way that is massively attractive to women…|
|He’s Passionate – He taps into his masculine energy and power – driven by the things in life HE wants to do…|
|He’s Ambitious – He goes after what he wants with assertive force – and he usually gets it…|
|He tells himself the Truth – He doesn’t delude himself, no matter how attractive the illusions are. No denial and no self-deception…|
|He’s Emotionally intelligent – He knows how to keep his emotions from running- and ruining – his life…|
|He’s Socially adept – He knows how to handle any social situation and read other people – avoiding the games and leading to his desired result…|
|He’s Cunning – He’s a smart survivor with the ability to adapt and bend his circumstances to his will…|
|He Has Power Social Skills- He knows that women now choose men who are more socially skilled and aware…|
|…And He Has No apologies – He projects his personality outward instead of coming across as if he’s apologizing for himself and his actions…|
The Alpha Man does not pee on trees, take steroids, or push people around. He’s not the aggro guy.
Today’s Alpha Man understands a woman better than she understands herself.
And, believe it or not, YOU can be this Alpha Man.
If you ‘ve been playing “games” to get women to be interested in you, then I’ve created something that you can use to cut through the games and B.S. and finally start to use your real personality to attract women’s interest.
You don’t need worn-out pickup lines or awkward techniques.
You don’t need to be a “pickup artist…”
R.E.A.L. Game is what you need to succeed.
REAL stands for:
- R = Relaxed & Resourceful – when you’re cool and calm, you’ll be able to remember the techniques that work…
- E = Effective & Energized – you have to find your power and the strategies that work for you…
- A = Authentic & Alpha – it has to come from YOU, your authentic confident and masculine character…
- L = Lifestyle & Lasting – this is a way of life for you – success in every area, not just women…
When you have REAL Game, you’re not just another ‘player’ out there spouting lines about “Who lies more, men or women?” or asking her what her astrological sign is. You will be a man who understands how women communicate AND how women want a man to talk and behave around them.
When you stay REAL with a woman, she will be attracted to you faster and stay with you longer.
I discovered that I didn’t want to be fake just to get a girlfriend. I knew I just had to be ME.
He says: “I don’t know. I guess I realized that I’m just Bud Fox… and as much as I wanted to be Gordon Gekko, I’ll always be Bud Fox.”
I think all guys out there know this in their hearts, that no matter how much they want to be a great pickup artist, they’ll always be themselves.
But that’s more than enough – and it will actually make you better than 99% of the guys out there!
And it doesn’t mean you can’t attract women with your true personality.
Remember: There’s ALWAYS one more pickup technique or clever line to be found out there, but it still won’t work for you without the right attitude.
But if you find the right attitude, you’ll ALWAYS have a technique.
So here is what I found to be the “3 Essential Needs” so that you can “be yourself” AND get the high-quality women you want.
Here Are Your 3 Essential Needs To Get REAL Success With Women and Attraction…
You don’t need any more complex theories and diagrams to make changes and become the man you want to be. What you need is CLARITY.
Clarity comes when you have a simple path that allows you to go from where you are and make your life into what YOU want it to be.
You see a wide open path to go from where you are right now all the way to that goal. Not just a distant mountain peak on the horizon and not knowing how to get there – much less how to climb it.
The first steps on that path that every guy needs is getting his confidence built up. This is called “Inner Game.”
Now let’s look at the problem – and your solution…
Face it, we all want to be motivated and inspired by someone. It’s hard to stay motivated every day and all the time. Humans are lazy by nature.
The funny thing about laziness is this: We go through all kinds of EFFORT and WORK just to be lazy!
How do you think such things as the remote control and recliners with cup holders were invented?
The truth is this: Human beings put out unbelievable effort in the NOW to avoid work LATER.
Each of the people that invented a time-saving, effort-saving gadget – like the remote control – thought it was a wonderful idea when they created it. They also knew that they could sell that invention and make big-time money on it.
They motivated themselves with the promise of a better future if they would just invest time in something right now.
Think about that for a minute, because that’s really important.
If you can create the reason why – you can do almost any what – and find any HOW to accomplish something. That’s called motivation.
Motivation is like taking a shower. When you shower you get clean and you feel GREAT. But it wears off. Tomorrow, you’ll need more another shower all over again.
No matter how motivated you get to change your life or learn new skills, you’ll need more later on, when times are tough.
- NOBODY is motivated 100% of the time, no matter what you may think...
- NOBODY is happy 100% of the time…
- NOBODY is good with women 100% of the time…
But you can DOUBLE your motivation, happiness, and attraction skills with a few proven strategies.
Yes, you can learn how to be the man you want to be. It all comes down to your own fire and drive. Moods come and go, but action speaks volumes.
In a moment, I’m going to reveal to you how you can use the Secret Strategies of Motivation and getting yourself to finally DO the things you know you have to do to succeed. This is the missing link that will finally complete your game with women.
Don’t think that reading an e-book once or listening to a CD program once will get you that motivation. In fact, if you think this, you probably should stop reading right now. I can’t help people who are looking for the “get-rich-quick” scheme.
There are some guys out there that are so hung up on the analytical side of this stuff that they get into REAL trouble when it comes time to interact in the real world with real women…
I’ve seen graphs and charts and descriptions of this “micro-hoop” theories that take all the fun out of meeting and talking with beautiful women.
Does it really have to be this complicated?
NO, it doesn’t.
You don’t need another graph/chart/picture/clever analytical method.
It’s time to put your scientific calculators away and own up to the ACTION you must take.
You need a clear answer to a very clear and simple question: “How do you approach women confidently and get them interested and attracted to you?”
In the end, every man that achieves true success with women will end up with his own UNIQUE style of seduction. You learn it not by learning a complicated model, but by taking what you already have and making that work for you.
And the side-benefit is that when you learn how to be R.E.A.L. with a woman, you’ll be able to use ANY system you want and make it work for you. And it won’t feel fake or weird doing it.
This is going to sound a little off the topic, but have you ever used an equalizer?
You know, an equalizer is that funky thing that lets you change the way your music sounds by cutting or boosting certain frequencies? In your car, you have a really simple version of this: bass and treble controls. At home you may have seen one with a bunch of sliders that helps you “shape” the sound.
Without equalization, your music feels flat and dull. When you use it, the sound comes alive.
Learning the principles of REAL Game is the equalizer – and booster – for your “VIBE” – your personality.
When you’ve learned how to authentically approach women, you’ll learn how to boost the right parts of your personality – and also cut out the parts that are too loud or hurt her ears. You’ll have a silky smooth sound that turns you into a charismatic force of attraction with women.
Who I Am… And How I Can Help You…
I started out learning about the principles of Alpha Man behavior from my dad when I was just a kid. He showed me what it was like to be genuinely and unapologetically MASCULINE.
When I was in my early twenties, I lost all my confidence with women when I started reading all the relationship “self-help” books out there. I had to re-learn how to really attract women all over again. I had to re-learn what it meant to be a man and get quality women the right way.
What I did was create a roadmap of my journey that you’re probably familiar with in my Secrets of the Alpha Man program.
What I decided to do next was take this new approach to my own sexuality and masculinity, and make a program that ANY guy can use to go from wherever you are right now and take it to the next level with the Alpha Immersion Program. This is really my advanced Secrets of the Alpha Man.
And now you can do this on your own – with no need for an expensive “bootcamp” to get you there. (I’ve seen these “in the field” training classes that cost over $2000. Amazing…) You can improve your inner and outer game all on your own, and from the privacy of your own home.
It’s my goal to make you – the real YOU – attractive to women, without borrowing someone else’s personality or having to become another person to do it.
And you won’t have to date just the bubble-headed bimbos, either. You can have the high-quality women that you want to keep.
WARNING: You’re Going To Learn Some REAL Techniques and Strategies for Attraction…
Now, after all this talk about being “natural” and REAL, you might wonder why the heck I want to show you all my techniques and tactics that I use to attract women. After all, isn’t this just going against what I said about being genuine and authentic and NOT using techniques?
Well, the funny thing was that I finally figured out after years of using a bunch of rehearsed lines and routines was that I actually needed them to start out and get better. What these “techniques” did for me was give me borrowed confidence for attracting women.
So what I did was pull all my best strategies together – taking all the best pieces and the ones YOU could adapt to your personality – and I created a new roadmap for the next part of the journey towards being the Alpha Man that women desire.
What I will do for you in this program is to connect the dots – from understanding the inner confidence that a man needs to feel, to the way you use your own attraction skills to pull women directly into your life. And I’m doing it with a method that you can easily modify and change to match your own personality and style.
I don’t believe in giving a man a fish… I teach him how to fish – and then give him the fish he needs to get started and not starve in the process!
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